Adair Rader- Just some thoughts

 I am just reflecting on a thought that I had while writing my exploratory essay yesterday. Maybe it's not as ground breaking as I think it is, or maybe it's something interesting to think about. I'm not sure. I was thinking about the journey of our lives and how many of us spend a lot of time and energy trying to find happiness. We often think about our life's journey as the road to happiness, or that happiness is a destination we are trying to reach. 

However, as I was writing my essay, I realized that if we spend our whole lives searching for happiness, we are making the assumption that we don't currently feel happy or that we are unable to in our current situation. Therefore, we spend our whole lives looking for something that we can only have in the present. So I suggest that life is not a journey towards happiness, but rather a journey of acceptance and appreciation. To "find" happiness, we must accept who we are, where we are, and the life that was given to us, and we must appreciate this life for what it is in all its beauties and its challenges.

That is not to say that we can't make changes when we are unhappy. Change is necessary and change is healthy. Yet, if we constantly seek change as a means to obtain happiness, we fail to recognize all we have currently. 

I know this is easier said than done, but I just wanted to share that thought in case it is helpful to anyone else!

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